WALLFLOWER: A person who, because of shyness, unpopularity, or lack of partner, remains at the side at a party or dance.  I often joke about being a wallflower at parties and gatherings.  I was a little shocked to read this actual definition since I felt like the definition made the wallflower sound a little sad.  I stand alone at parties and dances when I need me time, to have a snack, or want to observe the room without distraction, not because I am shy, unpopular, or lacking a partner. Or so I thought?

It takes some serious self confidence to stand alone at a party, don't cha think?  All I can say is that as a wallflower, I will be feeling pretty good in this sweet little number by Mumu from Riffraff.  The line boasts gorgeous pieces featuring loose fits and fun prints.  I highly recommend them.  Happy Tuesday...J

Dress, c\o {Riffraff}, Sweater {Ann Taylor}, Heels {Nine West}, Necklace {Vintage}, Purse {Fendi}


The Pineapple Meets Hostess with the Mostess Monday

Hi you guys!  How was the weekend?  We have had a fun filled month of visitors, so I have been loving my hostess role these past few weekends.  Nothing makes me happier than keeping the house tidy, shopping for little happies to surprise my guests, and adding that little something special to our nest to make guests' stays all the more special.

On October 1, we celebrated my one year anniversary as an Event Planner at a very special place in South Bend.  I never dreamed that I would be getting to use my love of design and special occasions to further the development of an amazing university.  Since I spend many work days dreaming up special touches for events, I thought I needed to start sharing some of that dreaming with you folks.  I hope you will enjoy getting a little event inspiration from my "Hostess with the Mostess Monday" posts.

First up, the PINEAPPLE. Celebrated as s symbol of hospitality there is nothing like a fresh pineapple to get a party started.  I mean what is not to like about a fruit that looks like it is wearing a crown?  In the photos above, you can find my favorite ways to incorporate a little bit of hospitality in to your party, or try them all to celebrate an in your face pineapple party theme.  

1.  Pineapple print clothes.
2.  Pineapple invitations.
3 & 4.  Pineapple Centerpieces.
5. Pineapple vase.
6.  Pineapple tabel accent.
7.  Pineapple bowl.
8.  Pineapple bar accent.  

I would love to know which idea you would be willing to try?  I can't choose, so thinking a full on "Pineapple Party" is in my very near future.  Happy Monday...JMR


The Gimmies

Okay...so have you been wondering at all how the "No Shopping" has been going?  

I have been doing pretty darn well I think.  I started off very strong with literally no shopping for almost a month and a half.  Then they changed our work event dress code.  So all those suits I bought last year are not necessarily preferred.  After wearing the same 3 black dresses to several events, my mom said, "work clothes are like food, you need them."  So I have been keeping my eye out for work appropriate items here or there. 

I must confess, I sort of dove head first off the no shopping wagon and did a face plant smack in to a few flea markets, Zara, and a mad J.Crew sale while in NYC for work.  I am not proud, but the past is the past.  

I will say it has not been easy with all of the amazing fall items out there.  You can follow along as I pin my favorite items on to my "Woulda If I Coulda" pinterest board.  But today I am sharing a few items I cannot get off of my mind.  

First, this sweet little polka dot number form Savoir-Faire.  Good thing they have already sold out of my size, so I will not be tempted.

Two, this O-R-A-N-G-E bag.  I cannot get it off my mind.  I think it is something I might have to eventually purchase after the no shopping is over.  My husband loves orange and it always reminds me of him.  I think that is why I am so drawn to this bag.  And then of course the opportunity to have a little "JMR" on the bag in gold seals the deal.

Three, this dress from the amazing Lola is just a dream.  It would be perfect for holiday parties with black tights and dreamy dinners with my main squeeze in Italy.

Four, this little flower dress just steals my heart every time.  I am not convince I would look that great in it.  But I do think she would be pretty hanging in my closet.  

So there you have it.  The 4 items I cannot get off my mind at the moment.  Feeling the gimmies! Happy Thursday...J


1 Savoir-Faire Dress, 5 Ways, Part 5

So here is the final look.  Swapped the open toe heels for comfy flats, added a heavy knit scarf, and threw on a warm vest.  Not sure how I would survive the snow without knits and fluffy vests.  They just add that extra layer of warmth to dainty pieces.  And how about the camo and pink combo?  It kills me every time.  Happy Wednesday..J

Dress c/o {Savoir-Faire}, Jeans {Vintage}, Flats {Nine-West}, Scarf {Forever 21}, Vest {J.Crew}, Jacket {TJmaxx}, Necklace {Chico's}, Purse {LV}


1 Savoir-Faire Dress, 5 Ways, Part 4

Hi cuties!!  Are you surprised I threw jeans on under this dress?  I actually wear pants under dresses all the time.  I find it is an easy way to get extra wear out of some of my favorite dresses.  Also, very easy to do with the loose pants we are seeing everywhere this season.  See you right back here tomorrow for the final layer of this look...J

Dress c/o {Savoir-Faire}, Jeans {Vintage}, Heels {Nine-West}, Scarf {???}, Purse {LV}


1 Savoir-Faire Dress, 5 Ways, Part 3

Covered up the shoulders today and added a bright pink scarf for a warmer look.  Check back tomorrow to see what new layer I have added to take this dress to November.  Happy Monday...J

Dress c/o {Savoir-Faire}, Jacket {TJMaxx}, Flats {Nine West}, Necklace {Chico's}, Purse {LV}